People have different values and beliefs system.
One would be led to believe that everything is not absolute, and that everything is relative to your own derivatives of what is right and wrong. In other words, you are the boss of yourself; you set the rules and you play by your own rules.
It takes a lot of guts to admit that, “Hey, maybe you don’t have the best system” and instead submit to higher authority. It also takes a bit of humbleness and humility to admit that you might not have it all together – that you need someone else to tell you what is right and what is wrong.
I’ve been there many times, and I’ve resisted higher authority.
But I guess it takes a couple falls – scrapes and bruises – to realize that, yes, I don’t have it all together.